No Formal Dining Room? Host Thanksgiving on the Floor
A blogger shows us how it’s done.
Published Nov 19, 2020 2:00 AM
Just because you won’t be traveling to visit relatives or hosting a big group at your house this year doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy a nuclear-family-only Thanksgiving. Los Angeles–based blogger Sara Toufali of Black & Blooms has a solution for making even a tiny celebration special: Eat on the floor, picnic-style.
The tradition started four years ago when Toufali lived in an apartment without a working formal dining room. (She and her partner transformed it into an office.) She still wanted to host her pals for Friendsgiving, but without a table big enough, they got creative and moved the party to their living room.
As it turns out, taking the traditional meal down a notch has some fun benefits. “Since it’s literally on the floor, trying to be too fancy with it doesn’t make sense,” says Toufali. “In essence, it’s a casual affair.” One year guests even used their seating cushions as head pillows for a turkey-fueled nap after dinner. “Everyone was just lying on the floor, and it was so funny,” she says.
This year Toufali isn’t sure if she’ll have anyone over (and if she does, it will be outdoors), but she says her low-fuss entertaining style is a great idea for a more laid-back spin on what’s usually an elaborate, family-filled holiday. Here’s how to pull off your own picnic-style Thanksgiving.
Hack the Table
To make a cozy eating area for her guests in years past, Toufali cleared the coffee table from the living room and borrowed a long plastic folding table from her brother: “We kept the legs folded in, put some banana fiber poufs underneath to prop it up, and voilà!” You can also add lift with crates or sturdy bins, she says. Hot tip: “You’ll notice that our table got progressively taller throughout the years,” notes Toufali. “That’s because it’s hard to eat when the table is straight on the floor. This way you don’t have to hold your plate up to your mouth to eat.”
Lend Some Support
The first time Toufali hosted, she simply moved her couch’s pillows to the floor. The next year she went with sturdier poufs from Society6. “You’d be surprised how comfy it actually is,” she says of sitting on the ground.
Keep the Tablescape Casual
The beauty of a floor party is that you don’t have to break out the fine china. For example, one year Toufali used melamine plates and mismatched drinking glasses. She doesn’t fuss over flowers either. “I’ve always just gone to either Whole Foods or Trader Joe’s to get inexpensive flowers, and I put the bouquets together myself,” she says, making sure to keep the arrangements of daisies and sunflowers tiny and low to facilitate easy conversation.
Serve Food Buffet-Style
Instead of loading up the table with turkey and side dishes, Toufali sets up the meal in the kitchen or lines it up on the coffee table. It’s also a good general hostess hack: You don’t have to serve your guests seconds. They can go grab a new plateful themselves while you gleefully snooze on the floor.
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